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Hiiii! How’s the day treating you? I have a couple of meetings this morning and packing because we’re seeing BTS this weekend (the girls are pumped).
For today, let’s talk about energy and cortisol. It’s a huge topic, something I talk about with clients a lot, and something that I struggled with for years.
For a long time, I thought I was just tired because of… life.
I had a full coaching schedule, was creating content, taking care of the girls, the Pilot was often traveling/deployed/working, trying to keep up with workouts, and doing all the things. Of course I was exhausted. Of course I was wired at night and dragging in the morning. That’s just life, right?
I remember going to the doctor when Liv was little (not my current PCP, it was a doctor on base) and she was like, “You have a toddler. Of course you feel horrible.”
It took me longer than I’d like to admit to realize that what I was experiencing wasn’t just a busy-life thing. It was a cortisol thing. And once I actually looked at my cortisol pattern – not just assumed everything was fine because my basic labs came back “normal” – so many things clicked into place.
If you’ve been feeling off and can’t quite put your finger on why, this post is for youuuuuu. We’re going to talk about what cortisol actually does, the signs it’s out of balance, what drives dysregulation in the first place, and what’s genuinely helped me, including the test I wish I’d run years earlier.
Signs Your Cortisol Is Dysregulated (And What to Actually Do About It)
First, What Is Cortisol Actually Doing?
Cortisol gets a bad reputation as the “stress hormone,” but it’s not inherently the enemy. It’s produced by your adrenal glands and plays a critical role in almost every system in your body: energy metabolism, blood sugar regulation, immune function, inflammation response, and your sleep-wake cycle.
In a healthy pattern, cortisol follows a predictable daily rhythm: it peaks in the morning (this is what helps you wake up and feel alert to start the day), gradually declines throughout the day, and reaches its lowest point at night so you can fall and stay asleep. That curve is everything. When it’s working, you feel like yourself: energized when you need to be, able to wind down when it’s time.
When it’s not working? That’s when things get a lil messy.
Cortisol dysregulation doesn’t just mean “too high” or “too low.” It means the pattern is off and there are actually several different ways that can look. You might have high morning cortisol and crash by noon. You might have a flat curve with low cortisol all day. You might have low morning levels and a spike at night (hello, second wind at 10pm that makes no sense but makes you want to redecorate your whole house). Each pattern has different root causes and different solutions, which is exactly why a standard blood test that only checks cortisol at one point in time tells you so little.
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