Chatting about what Iād do differently if I were starting my health journey today.
Hi hi! And hello from San Diego! Iām here for some mastermind adventures and getting quality time with my bestie Betsy, which is the best combo.
For todayās post, I wanted to talk about something Iāve been reflecting lately: what Iād do differently if I were starting my health journey today.
what Iād do differently if I were starting my health journey today
Iāve had a few major transition points with my health over the years:
ā In college, when I first decided I wanted to āget healthy.ā I tried everything: different eating styles, workouts, routines. Some worked⦠some very much did not.
ā A few years into marriage, when I stopped taking birth control and realized how much it had been masking symptoms and quietly depleting me. I needed daily naps and lived on multiple cups of coffee just to function.
ā During fertility struggles, when I made big shifts in exercise and nutrition and found functional medicine (which was very much considered hocus pocus back in 2009, let me tell you).
ā Postpartum, while dealing with intense postpartum depression and anxiety.
ā Later, when eye issues and autoimmune symptoms started showing up.
And now⦠here I am.
Am I perfect? Absolutely not 
But I feel better now than I did in college⦠and it definitely didnāt happen overnight. It took time, mistakes, certifications, experience, and a lot of learning about nuance and personalization.

If I were starting over today, hereās what I would do first:
I would stop under-eating
I under-ate for years and couldnāt figure out why my hair was falling out, my energy was nonexistent, and my body felt stuck. I wasnāt eating enough protein, fiber, or overall calories, and my body was constantly trying to survive instead of thrive.
Iād regulate my nervous system before chasing protocols
I was in fight-or-flight from about age six until⦠honestly, just a couple of years ago. I didnāt realize how deeply my nervous system was affecting everything: hormones, digestion, immunity, sleep. Itās taken therapy, supplements, habits, and a lot of awareness to come out of that state. I still remind myself multiple times a day: āThis is not an emergency.ā Most of us wildly underestimate how much our nervous system drives our health.
Iād test sooner
If youāre not testing, youāre guessingā¦. and guessing gets expensive. I w